Would I rather be feared or loved, Easy both

I want people to be afraid of how much they love me.

This EPIC dialogue from “The Office” is one of my favourites…

This evidently shows how much Michael loves himself. This is the reason he is so confident all the time.

Think about the last time when you felt confident.

No negative self-talk, no crippling anxiety, no thinking about “what will they think about me”, just plain, calm confidence.

When was that? What was happening around you?

Were you drunk? Or high? Or maybe you were with your tribe, where you don’t have to wear any mask to fit in, you can be just YOU. The real YOU.

Feels amazing doesn’t it? That calmness, that serene beauty in the present moment, where you can laugh like a maniac, or even cry as if you lost someone special.

In those moments, just notice… Notice how loving you become when you don’t care what other people think about you.

And you know why you don’t care?

Because your core values align with your tribe.

What core values you ask?

Figure out yourself…

It took me a long time to find my tribe. And for that, I had to evaluate my core values. Once you know your values, its just becomes easy to find the same kind of people, and it becomes even easier to be just you.

The real you!

And trust me, it’s so worth it.

Just imagine… you can say anything! Make any crazy face! Make the darkest joke and laugh like an animal!

And trust me, you don’t need alcohol for that. You just need some people that share the same core values.

Life isn’t that difficult, everything becomes easy when you have a strong tribe.

Before finding your tribe, you need to figure yourself out.

So, keep figuring it out yourself.

I can help you if you need… Go to my website and book a free 1–1 call with me!

And Until then…

Question Everything

Sarthak Mirchandani